I’m not sure this is quite what you want. It might be. I looked at your site and saw a related problem that I solved the other day. Hope this helps.
Problem: get rid of all YouTube chrome except the play button. That means all top and bottom borders.
Solution: Add the showinfo
parameter to the URL in the embed code and set it to 0.
You can see the result here
This is the default embed code for that video.
<iframe width="640" height="360" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/Et-E3r4r37A?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
Here is my modified embed. All that’s changed is the showinfo=0
attribute on the src
attribute
<iframe width="640" height="360" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/Et-E3r4r37A?rel=0&showinfo=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>